Monday, 29 October 2007

Halloween

Well it's happened again, we have had our car egged due to the Halloween season and yes it has marked the roof, but this time we are going to ignore it because we cannot go through all that rigmarole again.

Trick or treating is relatively new to the UK and whilst it may be fun for some for others it is a source of fear and intimidation.  Lots of elderly people will be hiding in their houses frightened to open the door for fear of what might happen to them.  Young children go with a parent and if someone says no they just leave.  But there are the older ones who go out on their own knocking at strangers houses and demanding money.  Notwithstanding the risk to themselves knocking on peoples doors who they do not know, but also imagine the horror when the elderly (or any age) come out the next morning to see everything covered in eggs and flour which they then have to try and clean before the eggs bite through the paintwork.

The head of one school has recognised the dangers of Halloween and will have nothing to do with it.  She rightly says that it is basically a commercial enterprise with little relevance to faith and has a dark side which is unhealthy.

In other places in the country the attention has been drawn to its 'anti-social effects' and police, churches and schools are trying to take the fear out of 'trick or treat' and to protect the vulnerable and elderly from what is rightly called vandalism.

Trying to make Halloween (All Saints Eve) into a safer and more wholesome night is gaining popularity.  Churches are organising parties that will be far more fun than trick or treating to encourage the children off the streets.  Shops are being encouraged to display some lighter things in their Halloween section not just monsters and ghouls.  It seems that Sainsbury's and Asda have taken this on board and are including face paints, glow sticks and other non-witchy items this year. 

I do not wish to offend anyone who goes out with their kids and has a bit of fun and wouldn't hurt a fly, so let me explain why i and most christians in the UK (not sure how many other countries 'trick or treat') will have nothing to do with it and tries where possible without offending to discourge it.

Apart from the damage and fear aspect mentioned above, Halloween (as it is seen today) is of the occult and does have a dark side.  There are real witches about and especially in the UK.  Some just play at it and some are the real deal. It is one of the fasting growing - i loosely say 'faiths' - in the UK today.  It is pushed at the children from every side, books, films, TV, Harry Potter.  It is made to look fun and adventureous.  Nearly every High Street has a shop selling witchcraft books and parafanalia.  It is portrayed as harmless. 

Without going into detail, does it work?  You bet it does if you are into the real thing.  To have power is a big draw, think about it. Is there any good witchcraft?  I am sure there are some lovely people around that consider themselves witches who would never harm anyone, but and a big but anything that seeks to control, manipulate, have power over another even if it is for a good reason has to be wrong.

There is a lot more i could say but won't here.  So i feel anything that gives the children the impression that witchcraft is just a bit of fun and would encourage them to get involved or delve deeper when they are older must be discouraged at all costs.  Children look to adults for their lead we must be careful what message we give.

Happy All Saint's Eve

Jenny <><

Saturday, 27 October 2007

Pooter, B'day

The lead on my computer broke last week so i had to get a new one.  i was most thankful that it was the lead and not the actual laptop.  I tried getting into AOL with my desktop but that is not broadband and everything was so slow i got too frustrated. 

Now can anyone tell me this, why when i get AOL up on my desktop pooter (Supanet is my provider) is the home page and everything about it completely different to my AOL on my laptop (Which is my provider)????????

Woke up yesterday with my right eyelid swollen up with fluid.  It has gone down a bit but not completely.  It is worse in the morning and just aches a bit but does not hurt.  My daughter's eye is the same but hers really hurts her and keeps coming up, usually when she is stressed, (it's school holidays)!

G'son was 8 Thursday and had a good day and the day before g'son, g'daughter and daughter went to see the 'Lion King' up London.  They really enjoyed it as i knew they would as i have seen it a few years ago.  They went with ADDUP my g'son's ADHD support group who heavily subsidised it which made it affordable for my daughter, seats in London's theatres being the price they are.  One of the bonuses of going somewhere with the club is that all the kids are in the same boat so Mums do not worry they are being looked at and judged when the kids do not behave like little angels.  They always include siblings with any activity as they recognise that they are as much involved in the family problems when there is someone with ADHD in the family.  They welcome g'daughter to all the ADDUP activities with open arms and she always enjoys herself when she goes.

 

Tuesday, 16 October 2007

Try Again

After loosing all my post from yesterday i will put in the pictures again.

The first one is of my beautiful daughter and g'daughter, the second is of my hubby, daughter, g'daughter, and uncooperative g'son, he was having a bad.  we are outside the holiday cottage we stayed in.

Last night was my first attempt with photobucket so now i will give it another go and see if i can remember how i did it last night.

 

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Thats as good as it is going to get today.  I have tried making the picture a bit smaller but it seems to be distorting it so i think i will leave good enough alone.  Sorry if it is a bit wide for the page.

Leave this alone AOL!

Where's it gone??????

All of yesterdays post and pictures gone!!!!!

Jenny <><

Monday, 15 October 2007

More Photos

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My beautiful daughter and g'daughter, My blondie.  She takes after her Dad as we are all dark hair brown eyes on my side of the family.  She hates having her photo taken so it is hard to get one on her own.

 

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Not done so well with the photo it won't shrink to the size i want it to like the other one.  I have just started using photobucket i suppose i will get the hang of it.

Well this is hubby, daughter, g'daughter and uncooperative g'son outside our holiday cottage.

Thanks to Kathy for telling me about photobucket, i am sure i will get better at it.  But i think i am going to quit while i am ahead for now.

Jenny <><

Saturday, 13 October 2007

Me and mine

My gorgeous handsome son.  He has two stepsons of 19 and nearly 18, twin sons of 16 and a daughter of 14.

Three things about me....

I really like moths.  The bigger the better, especially the big furry Hawk moths.  I actually prefer them to butterflies, probably because they sit still a lot longer so you can look at them properly.

I like any song with the word 'Georgia' in. Rainy Day in Georgia, Georgia On My Mind etc.  I cannot even begin to understand why.

I have not put shampoo on my hair for about 18 months.  I just rinse it every other day or so with warm water and a good rub of the scalp. My scalp now NO longer itches. My hair has stopped falling out as much and has thickened up (it was starting to go a  bit thin on top). It is now No longer greasy at the roots and dry and brittle at the ends.  It is now thick, shiny, soft and in good condition.

Jenny <>< 

 

Tuesday, 9 October 2007

Holiday photos

Well it's been awhile, i switched everything off and went on holiday and have been busy ever since. I found i had been reading so many alerts that i had no time for anything else. I have decided that i am going to have to be strict with myself and ration my blog reading.  I have had a chance to read a few books in the last two months, something i have really missed.

Holiday weather was blah! We mostly did things for the kids, no sitting on the beach relaxing, LOL!  One day was so wet we just stayed in the cottage all day.  But it could have been worse.

Hubby has had vertigo for weeks now due to the change of weather, there is nothing he can do but wait for it to go.  He gets it every year.

G'daughter has started secondary school and has been getting on OK.  She has been voted the girl form captain for her class and is now a seconder at Guides.  She spends all her time and weekends doing her homework though!

I have included some holiday photos with this post but due to the weather most of them are quite dark.

Jenny <><